{"id":2903,"date":"2011-04-16T03:12:03","date_gmt":"2011-04-16T03:12:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thesocialcmo.com\/blog\/?p=2903"},"modified":"2011-04-16T03:12:03","modified_gmt":"2011-04-16T03:12:03","slug":"the-twisted-reality-of-influence-scoring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thesocialcmo.com\/blog\/2011\/04\/the-twisted-reality-of-influence-scoring\/","title":{"rendered":"The Twisted Reality of Influence Scoring"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What compels us to believe in something even when we know deep down  it is inherently flawed? What emotional need does it fulfill in us that  we are willing to set aside our reason and embrace a vision of who we  are that is not true or, at the very least, is a murky reflection of  real life.<\/p>\n<p>The current drive to measure influence reminds me very much of  Plato\u2019s Theory of Forms from The Republic in which he uses the \u201cAllegory  of The Cave\u201d. Through \u201cThe Cave\u201d\u00a0 Plato theorizes the world we believe  to be real is in fact illusion. Rather than subjecting you to Plato\u2019s  actual works (although I thoroughly encourage it on your own time), I  will draw from that information wonder Wikipedia to help provide an  understanding of the <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Allegory_of_the_Cave\">Allegory of the Cave<\/a>\u2026<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/themountaintop.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/Platos-allegory-of-the-cave2-300x175.jpg\" title=\"cave\" class=\"alignright\" width=\"300\" height=\"175\" \/>From Wikipedia:<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u2026imagine a cave inhabited by prisoners who have been chained and  held immobile since  childhood: not only are their arms and legs held in  place, but their  heads are also fixed, compelled to gaze at a wall in  front of them.  Behind the prisoners is an enormous fire, and between  the fire and the prisoners is a raised walkway,  along which people walk  carrying things on their heads \u201cincluding  figures of men and animals  made of wood, stone and other materials\u201d. The  prisoners watch the  shadows cast by the men, not knowing they are  shadows. There are also  echoes off the wall from the noise produced from  the walkway.<\/p>\n<p>Socrates suggests the prisoners would take the shadows to be real  things and the echoes to be real sounds, not just reflections of  reality,  since they are all they had ever seen or heard. They would  praise as  clever whoever could best guess which shadow would come next,  as someone  who understood the nature of the world, and the whole of  their society  would depend on the shadows on the wall.<\/p>\n<p>Socrates next introduces something new to this scenario. Suppose that   a prisoner is freed and permitted to stand up. If someone were to show   him the things that had cast the shadows, he would not recognize them   for what they were and could not name them; he would believe the  shadows  on the wall to be more real than what he sees.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSuppose further,\u201d Socrates says, \u201cthat the man was compelled to look   at the fire: wouldn\u2019t he be struck blind and try to turn his gaze back   toward the shadows, as toward what he can see clearly and hold to be   real? What if someone forcibly dragged such a man upward, out of the   cave: wouldn\u2019t the man be angry at the one doing this to him? And if   dragged all the way out into the sunlight, wouldn\u2019t he be distressed and   unable to see \u201ceven one of the things now said to be true?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><em>So I ask you now, is what you see in front of reality or  illusion? Do you really believe that your influence score is a realistic  representation of your true influence or simply a distorted reflection  on a cave wall?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Am I Chained to the Cave Wall?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I think what we struggle with most is how inconsequential we really  are in the grand scheme of things. We all want to matter of course, but  do we really?<\/p>\n<p>What I have come to recognize is that influence is far more complex  than we realize. That its forms, dozens to be precise, all represented  by adaptive layers around us (within us really but that\u2019s another post)  all fight to control our perception based on our emotional and rational  needs at that specific time and for a specific situation. These layers  of influence drive how we interpret the world and define our own role  within it. I refer to this as an \u201cinfluence persona\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>An influence persona does two things:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It interprets outside influential factors and forms for me to reinforce my beliefs, values and perception of the world.<\/li>\n<li>It projects my influence on others around me.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>Add to this the next layer of complexity where we interact with  others we begin to see a deeper, more complex form of dynamic influence  where our influence persona conflicts, succumbs or consumes other  people\u2019s influence personas within a given situation.<\/p>\n<p>What adds further complexity is our level of self-honesty. Is what  influences us building or destroying our image of who we are or want to  be perceived as by others? Is that self-image honest? I would put  forward that if honesty is a filter through which all influence flows  and is interpreted; then our ability to be honest with ourselves  determines whether we are chained to the wall of the cave or whether we  see the world as it really is.<\/p>\n<p>So how does influence scoring affect our self-image and our ability to be\u00a0 honest with ourselves?<\/p>\n<p><strong>My Score is My Worth<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/themountaintop.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/report-card-300x199.jpg\" title=\"report card\" class=\"alignleft\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/>We  have been trained since childhood to accept scoring as a reflection of  how well we are doing in the world. From school grades, to finishing  first in the race, we are given scores.\u00a0 Indeed the root of all  competition, is about the score. The team with the highest score wins.  Now, as we all know, when we have a low score\u2026 our parents reprimand us  \u201cwhy didn\u2019t you get that A?\u201d and our coaches berate us \u201ctrain harder and  maybe next time you can be 1st\u201d. So at every turn, we strive to improve  our scores in life and business. I mean, who wants the shame of having a  low score right?<\/p>\n<p>Now, enter the influence scoring companies and their desire to have  us compete for influence ratings. So what happens when we apply a score  to something as complex and misunderstood as influence?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>It changes how we perceive ourselves in relation to others because suddenly a score defines value within our social network.<\/li>\n<li>We change our behaviours to improve our score.<\/li>\n<li>Our honesty filter adapts to accept this score as a true reflection of us and our influence in the world.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In essence, we begin to lie to ourselves because a score is telling  us we are something we are not thus artificially inflating the ego. I  mean, who doesn\u2019t want to be more important\u2026 So what\u2019s the result?<\/p>\n<p>We chain ourselves to the wall of the cave and believe the shadows  and echoes to be our reality \u2013 that a score dictates how influential we  are.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is an Influence Score Emotional Crack or Feeding a God Complex? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/themountaintop.ca\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/worship-300x199.jpg\" title=\"worship\" class=\"alignright\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/>So why do we do it? Why do we choose to believe that a score defines  our value to others (and to ourselves)? I would put forward that it  stems from unfulfilled emotional need and falsely inflated self-worth  from having \u201cfollowers\u201d; a term I have serious issues with. There was a  time when followers was a term used in history in reference to those who  worshiped gods, deities or powerful men. Does having followers then  warp how we see ourselves? Is it giving us a God complex? Are influence  scoring companies the new deities?<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps its simpler than that. Maybe its more like an addiction to  crack-cocaine. In this case, the more we look to \u201cescape\u201d the reality  that we are inconsequential, the more we need a score to validate and  feed our ego until it becomes an obsession \u2013 a method we actively use to  define our \u201cfalse self\u201d to others. I guess this would make the  influence scoring companies crack dealers who are constantly finding  ways to feed the addiction and create clever ways for you to lure your  friends into buying. Much like dealers, they are promising escape \u2013 to  take you from not mattering, to mattering.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do We Continue to Avoid the Truth or Free Ourselves?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The question really boils down to this\u2026 Are we ready to accept that  having a score is a shadow on a cave wall? That it is not a reflection  of influence, but more a reflection of our relevance within our social  network. The more we believe that our influence score is reality, the  more we secure ourselves to that cave wall.<\/p>\n<p>Me, I choose to leave the cave and look upon myself in the world as  it really is. For the most part, I am someone of little consequence. In  certain situations with certain people, I can influence thinking;  sometimes actions. This is my reality. Can I change this? Of course. But  a score has absolutely no bearing on this reality and will never be a  measure of my impact nor of others impact on me.<\/p>\n<p>We all make decisions to chain ourselves to that cave wall or not.  Really it boils down to how we want to honestly measure ourselves.<\/p>\n<p>In closing let me be clear, while we don\u2019t matter to almost everyone  in the world, there is a small group around us in business and life who  we do matter to. And they\u2019re not keeping score!<\/p>\n<p>Jeff ~ Sensei<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What compels us to believe in something even when we know deep down it is inherently flawed? 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